Wednesday, June 21, 2006

To All the Friends I've Loved Before...

For some reason that stupid 1984 hit by Julio Iglesias is stuck in my head but the lyrics are a bit different.

It seems to me that there have been a lot of friends in this lifetime that have come in and then walked out to a new destination. Do they stop being my friends when they move, of course not, but is it the same? No.

Gone are the Friday nights of UNO and Champps Burgers, not to mention the freshly baked cookies, coffee and late nights of talking about all sorts of crazy stuff. No more going to see a movie at the AMC Livonia in the middle of the day and calling it ministry time. The high school days of sleepovers and wandering the streets of Dearborn and terrorizing the 7-11 guy are gone too. Even the days of hanging and laughing at the Bean in Plymouth with my brother and his merry men are but faded memories.

But I do have memories. They make me laugh. Sometimes I cry. The memories are still there though. At least I have them. Thank God for those.

Tomorrow a new memory will begin as a friend that I consider a brother heads out on a new adventure. The time that we have spent together and the things we have learned together will never be forgotten. I traveled from Michigan to California and back with Aaron. It was one of the most amazing things I have ever done. God has allowed us to sharpen one another, speak truth into one another and just have a great time together.

God knew the right time and the right place for our relationship to begin again. It was only a year and a half ago that Aaron and I started hanging out again. Aaron had just gone through some tough times and found his Father, God, in all of it. I was just hitting rock bottom... perfect timing.

Aaron's love for Jesus is so contagious. One of Aaron's worship team members talked about that on Sunday and it's so true. You can't help but be drawn to this guy. His faith is real. It makes you envious sometimes, but in a good way. It spurs you on. You want what he has. The good news is you can have it too!!

We all celebrated that day, but we all were sad to see Aaron leaving. I am so excited for what God has in store for Aaron in Kansas City, but I am gonna' miss him big time. There is no doom and gloom here, don't cry for me or pity me.

We just reconnected with some of the greatest people we have ever known just recently. They have been some of our closest friends for years, but life got in the way and we lost touch for a while, but now we're all together again (and they have vitamins!). Not to mention, Aaron introduced us to Dave, Kelly, Shawna, Derek and Casey. New memories are just around the corner with them.

We'll be going through this again in January as we say
auf Wiedersehen to some great people leaving for Deutschland... but the memories will be there.

Aaron, may God richly bless you on this journey. I pray that His peace is with you and that His love with uphold you. Never forget that your friends love you and are praying for you. We can't wait to hear all the great things God brings into your life and all the things you experience through Him.

Much Love Brotha',

Scott

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

What's the saying...better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all...something like that I think.

And I agree.

I wouldn't trade all the wonderful times we have had with our many friends over the years to avoid a little hurt now and then when a separation occurs.

We have some precious friends, both near and far...and I can't wait to see who God brings into our lives next, so we can build more memories.

Anonymous said...

dude this post resonates so much with me! Life goes by to quickly...seems like yesterday we were at the wedge...

I miss it as well, and in some ways you wonder; "Will it ever be that good again?"

Faithful Joy said...

Scott--you made me cry. Good post. I can certainly relate to the everchanging waxing and waning relationships in my life.

I can't wait to for the waxing when you and Cheryl get here. Wait, does that sound inappopriate? LOL!

Stacey said...

I understand all too well. Sometimes I just want to become a hermit, and stop getting close to people. But I would miss out on so much....sure it hurts...but the ride us worth it. The relationships are sooooo worth it.

I thank God for the time I've had with you and Cheryl.

Stacey said...

oops...Type-O..."the ride is so worth it"..Not to ride us is so worth it...
AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHh :)

Anonymous said...

Hey I know where that picture was taken! lol